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Why do men cheat?
They say: "I am a hunter". This is originated from a general belief that a man's duty is to
conquer a woman. And the only right - the only one in this matter - is to be a conqueror.
So a hunter walks, searches, and waits for the occasion to hunt. A more active hunter ?
creates the occasions by himself and organizes hunting, and places and checks traps. In :, both cases the biggest pleasure is in hunting. The prey is not very important - it is another trophy in the collection. That is not a type of a man who takes care of a woman. He thinks: my father had flirts and his marriage survived so I can do it as well. A lot of men think this way especially those who remember the parent's marriage crisis. A father went out, a mother stayed by the window crying. There were noisy voices, arguments and asks for forgiveness at home. Boys usually identify with a father even if they stand on the mother's side. Boys copy a father's behavior, and views and they act like him in their adult lives. But is it worth to copy everything without correction?
Before wedding I was somebody, at home I am nobody
This is a typical opinion of those who think the marriage is a stable thing. They forget to look after their wives more than only at the beginning. It is a typical male behavior in the relationships where there is not a real agreement between partners but the expectations are enormous. Both of the partners feel neglected and it does not matter how long they are together they feel as an old married couple. As you can see, everything should be built from the scratch, but agreement should come first.
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