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BORDERS OF UNFAITHFULNESS
It is very difficult to answer, why we are unfaithful. There are a lot of reasons for cheating. We cheat because we want to be loved and desired but our current partners do not give it to us. The simple curiosity of sexual experience with different person leads to unfaithfulness. Other people able to cheat are those who look for a perfect lover. They are never faithful, because they always hope they will find a better lover than the current one.
A person becomes more involved in a serious relationship even if he ensures himself that it was spontaneous and unexpected. You start a flirt because you do not feel fully satisfied and you hope that this flirt will fulfill your sexual desires.
On the other hand, unexpected flirts are created by the situation as when your partner went for a trip, you are alone and you meet by chance somebody interesting. I think this kind of cheating is not a symptom of some problems in your current relationship. You just used the opportunity.
If you experienced cheating in your relationship it may be worth to think over your current relationship. When one of the partners cheat it means this one does not really love or is not happy in this relationship.
One psychologist says guiltiness is always a signal. Why are we guilty? Understanding it will protect us from cheating.
In fact, a human being always fights the sexual ego - all crazy fantasies and temptations. If somebody thinks he is different probably this person denies own sexuality.
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