When to say - I love you
How easy it is to say it.. but how difficult to keep this promise.
It is really easy to say it but more difficult to keep the obligation
related to a love declaration. The same words do not always mean the same
for two different people.
Let say, you have already had a girlfriend. You feel comfortable and secure
with her and you trust her. One evening, you are going together to the night
club or to a friend's birthday party during which you surprisingly discover
that your girlfriend is cuddling another boy who she is dancing with. Or she
is kiss ing in the hall, thinking you cannot see it. Maybe, next day during
the argument she will say she cannot remember anything. Or she will explain
you; she was provoked, had a blackout, or started to suggest that all of it
was only your illusion. She may also say that if something happens once it
has no meaning. What is this all about? About cuddling or a few kisses? Does
it hurt anybody? Even being with you, she is still a free human being and
nobody has a right to forbid her anything. How do you feel? Your point of
view on the whole matter and your feelings are so different to her point of
view that you start thinking if everything is OK with you. As far as she
still treats you as her boyfriend, as nothing happened. From her point of
view, there is no reason to change anything only if you stop coming back to
that evening.
Boys can behave in a similar way. It happens that they do not feel anything
to the girl, but it is convenient for them to keep this person around. So
they pretend to have some special feelings and she becomes involved
strongly. It lasts for a while, he meets somebody more attractive and
interesting, and this girl is left.
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